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Here's one my mate (A) is going through at the moment and just curious to people's thoughts on this...

A and B were pretty good mates a few years ago, but B moved away 3 years ago for university and they have barely spoken in over a year.

B met a girl - S at university and started going out with each other, occasionally B would bring S back to his home town and one day A was introduced to S and they got on really really well.

B and S's relationship fell apart about a year ago and S is now single again.

Out of the blue a few days ago, A gets in contact with S and they hit it off straight away.

Now considering how A and B used to be mates, but A and S get on really well....should A see where this leads or leave it?

I'll edit this is its not clear enough, it makes sense in my head!

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I don't see a problem with it. It's not like the relationship had just ended, a year is plenty of time. If they used to be mates but aren't anymore then I don't see any obligations.

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This sort of stuff only matters if A & B are really good mates or if you're a teenager.

B might get the hump still, but such is life. Crack on :)

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Nothing wrong with it at all. A should crack on.

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JVT yes you should crack on ;)

Remember it's his "friend" who has the problem ;)

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JVT yes you should crack on ;)

What Burnsy said! :whistle2: ;)

Remember it's his "friend" who has the problem ;)

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Talk about over complicating it!

You fancy an old mates ex and you want to know whether it's okay to have a go... If you care what your mate thinks then ask his blessing, otherwise who cares? You've not seen him in a year so he's hardly your bast mate is he!

EDIT: Sorry.. 'your mate'!

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I see no issues and wouldn't anyway even if A and B were still in contact (explains alot about me really) so crack on.

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Remember it's his "friend" who has the problem ;)

the friend in his trousers most likely ;)

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