Fisal316 0 Posted December 22, 2010 Share Posted December 22, 2010 Just need some pointers on this topic if anybody could share... I've been working with this girl at my job at Showsec and wanted to ask her on a date. But i talked to another one of the lads i know there and told him that i only get like 10- 20 mins with her every shift and wanted to have a day to get to know her... he said build a foundation with her and become good friends before asking her out on a date... Another thing is that how do i eliminate the fact she might be dating some one already without directly saying do you have a boyfriend? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RemovedUser18-10-21 60 Posted December 22, 2010 Share Posted December 22, 2010 Just need some pointers on this topic if anybody could share... I've been working with this girl at my job at Showsec and wanted to ask her on a date. But i talked to another one of the lads i know there and told him that i only get like 10- 20 mins with her every shift and wanted to have a day to get to know her... he said build a foundation with her and become good friends before asking her out on a date... Another thing is that how do i eliminate the fact she might be dating some one already without directly saying do you have a boyfriend? Ask her out for a drink after work or something. It can be something of a 'hidden' date. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fisal316 0 Posted December 22, 2010 Author Share Posted December 22, 2010 Very true! Should of thought of that earlier Thanks for that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted December 22, 2010 Share Posted December 22, 2010 Yeah just ask her out. Use the fact that you don't get to spend much time with her to your advantage - is there plenty of chatter between the two of you during the short periods that you are working together? If so just ask if she'd like to continue the conversation after work... Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
X-Adz-X 150 Posted December 22, 2010 Share Posted December 22, 2010 Ask her out for a drink, if she refuses... Quietly ask her if your cloth smells of rohypnol Or, just chat more and more to her, ask if she has facebook... Find out more about her 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fisal316 0 Posted December 22, 2010 Author Share Posted December 22, 2010 Yeah just ask her out. Use the fact that you don't get to spend much time with her to your advantage - is there plenty of chatter between the two of you during the short periods that you are working together? If so just ask if she'd like to continue the conversation after work... Good luck! We mainly have a laugh every shift i see her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shortman 36 Posted December 22, 2010 Share Posted December 22, 2010 Follow her home one day, do a bit of spying, find out as much as you can :D or you could use Facebo..... i mean stalkbook to find more out, no harm is there? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Straightjacket1545925726 0 Posted December 22, 2010 Share Posted December 22, 2010 Ok sensible answer now. Best way to find out if there is a significant other is indirect asking 'I hate working these hours sometimes, what does your other half think about you doing this job/these hours'.:D Will usually get a pointer from a question like that as to what their home situation is. You check facebook, people do leave lots of info on display sometimes. Perhaps use that as route to speaking to her, become friend through a mutual friend maybe if she has no idea who you are. Easist way to test water is ask out, but again indirectly 'going to get some food/drink after work (today/tomorrow), what you up to/fancy joining me?' not as direct as a date and allows the get to know time/ability to ask on a proper date. if she says no to today leave offer open or say doing same tomorrow if she wants to come. If get a no to both offers perhaps consider a tactical withdrawal either leave alone altogether or slowly work on getting to know in the time you see her. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hyde 328 Posted December 22, 2010 Share Posted December 22, 2010 Don't get too friendly with her before asking her on a date, you'll just get friend zoned 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fisal316 0 Posted December 22, 2010 Author Share Posted December 22, 2010 Don't get too friendly with her before asking her on a date, you'll just get friend zoned Yeah had that done before, and when we did go out and then broke up it was Hasta la Cya forever after that :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RemovedUser18-10-21 60 Posted December 22, 2010 Share Posted December 22, 2010 Let us know how you get on...Or get in. :D 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
X-Adz-X 150 Posted December 22, 2010 Share Posted December 22, 2010 Let us know how you get on...Or get in. :D If this was Facebook, I would of hit the 'Like' button. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fisal316 0 Posted December 22, 2010 Author Share Posted December 22, 2010 If this was Facebook, I would of hit the 'Like' button. Me Too! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RemovedUser18-10-21 60 Posted December 22, 2010 Share Posted December 22, 2010 If this was Facebook, I would of hit the 'Like' button. You like? Mine. Later?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
X-Adz-X 150 Posted December 22, 2010 Share Posted December 22, 2010 You like? Mine. Later?! See, if only the OP knew it was this easy! See you at 9! <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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