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Hi,     On 29th of February, I was slapped with close fingers on right hand side of the my face and pushed back in to the wall by one of the private car park attendant, actually I had a new baby born in the morning of same day and I was visiting back to my wife with clothes, foods and other stuff along with family friends, in the morning around 08:25 I parked my car in the same private car park on the back of royal infirmary in leicester but unfortunately forget to switch off the internal light and when I came back to pick my car up in the afternoon around 12:45 I found that my battery has no enough powe to start the car, I told the parking attendant I will come back with my friend and jump start the car later and paid him 4£ parking charges for period from morning till afternoon, later on around 16:30 I went back with my friend and jump start the car and paid them 2.50£ for the extra period I left my car their due to breakdown, later on same day when I went back to the same day when I visiting my wife in the evening again I went in the same car park to park my car; parking attendant told me I have to pay in advance in the evening for hole period because he finishes his job at 20:30 and some one else will take over, I said ok and ask him I only need one hour parking because I am visiting the hospital and they don't allow visitors after 20:30 so I wil come back by that time, actually the husband is allowed to stay till 20:30 and visitors are allowed to stay till 20:00 because I had visitors with me I knew that I will have to leave at 20:00 as well because they came with me in my car, but the parking attendant told me I have to make sure I will come back before that time otherwise they will charge me extra money and shows me a board hanging outside his porta cabin saying 60£, 70£, 80£, etc prices I did not read the board and told him don't worry I will be back by 20:30, he said you can give me 1:50£ pound but you make sure you come back by that time other wise pay me extra money now, because if you get late I will notbe here and those guys will not tolerate if you get late or have breakdown they will not care and you have to pay them extra money; in the return I told him don't worry if you are not here you don't need to be worried about it if I get late or have a breakdown again then it will be between me and those who took our from you; on hearing this he get aggressive and told me it is my ###### business this is my car park and those who took over from me work for me, and he returned me my money back 1.50£ I paid him for parking charges and said move your ###### car out of my car park you dick head you ###### ######, I told him there is no need for all this I am moving my car, because I was holding around 4 bags in my hands I ask my friend to move out the car, but he was keep slagging me off you ######ng dick get out quickly, I told him ageing listen my family is in the hospital and I don't want all this so please stop then he again said now you are proper dick ###### dick head by that time I was already walked out the car park but when he told me dick again I told him you are a dick because your behaving like one, and I further walk away on the footpath but suddenly he runs from behind and said what did you said you ###### dick I again told him look there is no need for all this I am moving out my car and I am leaving and my family is in the hospital and I don't want all this but he pushed me back in to the wall and through me a slap with close fingers on right side of the my face, by that time the bags I was holding drooped on the floor containing the food for my wife but my friend runs in and told him to stop fighting and his collegue who was moving one of the customers car came in as well and ask him to stop; I did not toch him at all and the only word I told him in return was the one I already mentioned above. My question is I had inform the local police about the incident as I believe it may help the police to prevent any future incidents because as of my judgement he had very aggressive attitude so my complain may help police in the future to protect any serious trouble; but since I work as a security officer which is licenced industry now some of my friends are telling me I should not inform the police it will also caused the problems for me if police could not find the proof like CCTV or any witness the parking attendant when police contacts him may well accused me for same and since police does not have any proof, both of us will be given warning for common assault which will go on police records which could lead to my SIA licence been revoked and I may have trouble when going abroad etc, I have a family to look after my wife my four year daughter and new born baby, and this is really worrying me now and I am really upset either I have done the right thing by informing the police I have made a big mistake and create a trouble formyself; eventhough I didnot touch that guy at all need said any word more then I already mentioned. Can some one please help me and explain me what is going to happen, have I done the right thing or I have created a problem for my self? Thanks